Oral Sex for Him:


One thing is for sure; men love oral sex. There are women who will participate because they want their partner to be happy, other because they feel as though they MUST reciprocate and then there are the women that men dream about...the ones that do it for their own personal pleasure and satisfaction! There is a very distinct difference in the recipe, technique and outcome when giver is enthusiastic about the act. Enthusiasm alone can make or break a good blowjob. Its also important for both parties to remember that doing a solo sex act like this can be very nerve racking, especially if a previous bad experience has taken place. Just as men, women were not born lovers and have to find their skill or better yet be softly & sweetly prompted in the right direction. There is a lot of satisfaction to be had just from knowing that you have pleased someone else and we all want to be able to bask in this glow.


One of the main issues that needs to be addressed before the buffet can begin is if you plan to swallow when and if the time comes. It is very well understood that most women do no crave the taste of ejaculate but will swallow to make the other one happy or to feel in control and then there are some women who would rather eat a rat for breakfast than swallow. Either way is up to you but, the one thing you do not want to do is ruin the moment if you plan not to. A few options for the non-swallowers are: sweetly let him now that you would love to perform oral loving' on him but you would prefer he let you know in advance of cumming so you can take him out and finish another way, discretely spitting into a washcloth or learn the Male Multiple Orgasm Technique to keep him from ejaculating until you are ready.

The other issue we deal with a lot is taste. Many women complain that their partner has a very bitter or unpleasant taste to their cum, which prohibits them from freely giving head to their man. There are three things we can do about this.

One: Have him put on a super thin spermacide-free condom
Two: Put up with it, sex is about truly living through feeling and emotion.
Three: Change his Diet (See "How Do you Taste" Page)

Note to Men: Most women prefer a clean, well groomed man and would be more willing to go down if he was kept this way.

Women should also remember that just because you go down on a guy it doesn't mean you have to finish him. In many instances men may not be able to finish this way, they would rather ejaculate in or on another area or its for the sexy feeling of just tasting your partner or lubricating the area every now again. Fellatio should be sexy, fun and arousing to both parties. The main way to give an earth shattering blowjob is explore, note his sweet spots, do not hurry and practice your techniques.